How to flirt at a gay bar

Going to a gay bar is fun, fun, fun! Especially when you are in the mood to flirt, meet some hotties and exchange sexy vibes. Hello possibilities! How do I flirt and or pick someone up? Lots of questions could be buzzing around your head. To get hit on at a gay bar, dress the part, look confident and be approachable. Make eye contact, smile, flirt and know how to take a hint both the yes and no hints.

Most importantly; focus on having fun — that is genuinely the best way to attract someone! In this article I will cover all the tips and tricks to make your night at a gay bar successful. The best kind of night is one where anything can happen. This means, making sure that your house is clean and tidy.

You never know, you might end up bringing home a hot date. So leave all doors open metaphorically.

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For more tips on how to prepare for someone to come over for a hot date, check out my article about hookup etiquette! Your house is not the only thing you should tidy. You should also take care of physical appearance. This might mean taking a nice, hot bath, or enjoying a relaxing shower while listening to your favorite jams.

Brush your teeth and groom yourself. A nice cologne is optional but be careful not to apply too much where it would be overpowering. Instead keep it subtle and sexy. Optionally, getting a haircut a day or two before going can do wonders for a night out. It boosts confidence and makes you look on point.

Emotionally, you should also take care of your energy, leaving any frustration and stress at home. People subconsciously pick up on negative energy. Nights where you feel good inside— you radiate— and people draw to this vibe like moths to a flame. A happy confident person is always attractive.

Do what you need to do to put yourself in a good mood before leaving the house. This could mean watching some comedic videos, talking to your friends, or dancing around the house to your favorite jams. Whatever it takes to put you in a good mood, find your festive and positive attitude before leaving the house.